Love - Khare Raste💞

                                                       Love - Khare Raste💞

Dear Readers, Happy New Year, I know I am late for the new beginings but whenever we meet, I think thats the begining. I hope all of you had a great start. Atleast I did, had sometime with family, winters in India and in the hills and trying to make life as better as possible.

LOVE, yes thats the topic I wanted to write on from a very very long time. Oh Yes, dont get me wrong this has nothing to do with me and my life but this topic of love always inspires me. I know as readers you would be in divided minds, trust me all my life till date - People have tried different philosophies on me, tried to lecture me till date that my world & thoughts are totally fairy taled and not even close to reality, PRACTICAL NAHI HO but my heart, doesnt change at all. 

Once a Jane Austen fan, always and forever one till I die. Btw, this is not about father- mother love, sister - brother, Nope, I am talking about pure Romance which does skip a beat, which does give you goose bumps, no matter what age of the life span you are in.

                                     

Just imagine

bada aitbaar hai mere yaar ko, ke deedar bina hum bekaraar rahenge...

Jao keh do unse pyaar karte hai, mann ki ankhon se nihaarkar unki yeh galatfehmi hum bekaar karenge!!

Doesnt that feel good, may be & may be not thats up to us. In fact, 2 years back I watched a Turkish series 1001 Nights and was so moved that you can stay sane and still like people say have fairy tales, I know its just a series and I dont know if we still have such people but the thought was so pure, so serene.

To my surprise, its Hindi adaptation was also released in 2022 which I watched last year and its poetry has really touched my heart. My better half - Nishant usually a quiet one keeps telling me I dont know how you always watch this so many times with the same charm. Just read it for yourself:

ऐ शाम ये तेरी बेईमानी, तेरे आते ही जाने की मनमानी..

तू उसकी याद लेकर आती है और मुझे रात के हवाले कर जाती है...

रात से डर लगता है उसकी बात से डर लगता है,

ऐ शाम तू तोड़े जो बार बार, उस ऐतेबार से डर लगता है....

सुर्ख शाम की अंधेरी रात आज भी आई है,

लेकिन आज वो मेरे डर को ढूढ़ नहीं पाई है...

सच कहूँ तो रातों को मैं अंधेरों से पहचानता था,

जब तक मैं जुगनुओं को नहीं जानता था....

एक जुगनू दिखा है तो और भी होते होंगें,

फिर जादू भी होता होगा, चिरागो में जिन भी होते होंगे...

दरिया और सपने भी पूरे होते होंगें,

चाँदनी में फरिश्तो का फरमान भी बरसता होगा...

और फिर...और फिर प्यार भी होता होगा,

होता होगा लेकिन क्या होता होगा....

अँधेरे में रोशनी का आना,

या मार्च की गर्मी में कुछ सोचके कपकपना...

चादर में मुँह छिपाना,

बिस्तर से उठ ना पाना....

मन की मेज पर बैठ कर उससे घंटों बतियाना,

छटपटाना, मुस्कुराना, अपने ही बालों को सहलाना...

बस उसकी यादों में खोते चले जाना,

बस खोते चले जाना...हाँ प्यार प्यार तो है...

वो मुझसे बात करती है,

ये कहके ख़ास करती है...

वो हँस कर धीरे से खुशी यार करती है,

वो देखती है मुझे और सुर्ख मेरे हालात करती है...

मुझे लगता है कि मैं हूँ,

क्योकि अब वो मुझसे बात करती है....

अब वो मुझसे बात करती है....

Isnt this heart warming? We all have such special people in our lives or have seen such people in front of us. Love and care are interchangeable between 2 partners what differs is the intensity. When this intensity crosses all barriers, thats True Love. I do sanely believe in one and I have seen many such examples. My mother the way she loves my Paa, Nishant's Paa, the way he loves my Mummyji, the way my home help Durga is trying her level best to keep her better half alive 24*7 , thats love - true, innocent and passionate. 

Infact, past few years I have also learnt that selfless love is all around me, why do you go extra miles to make someone so happy, why do you keep a person always before you, why are you willing to sacrifice everything for someone, LOVE. You bear all the pain to make things work for others no matter how bad it gets for you - atleast Durga has taught me a lot. When there was no hope, she truly lived upto her name to keep fighting but then you all call me DREAMY, really am I the one who is one or have you closed yourself to the real TRUTH.

Durga - Lives up to her name. People who know me, know that she one of the persons who is also the reason for my success. She doesnt know how she has taught me the real meaning of Love & care in her own ways - Hats off to such people around us.

A close friend of mine - Neeti is also a fighter and they way she has supported her better half is also an eye opener. I am sure you might think are there male examples to share, hote honge I am sure and next time, whenever I meet someone of this sort, I will dedicate an entire post to such lovely people.

                      

                                          Neeti - all love and more power to you - my super woman

Sawan ki pehli boond se, yaadon ke zharoon ke goonj se

Mann ke machalne se, saanson ke behekne tak

pyar ki gehrayi mein, umra bhar dubte rehne tak

Is ehsaas ko dil ke diye mein zinda rakhungi

Cheers to this feeling and may you all always be surrounded by such people all round you.

Love Leobond